Psychosis

This is a challenging blog post to write. In it, I will admit to some things that are either embarrassing or not at all flattering. I just told one of my adopted little sisters about some of this last night and breaking the barrier of not really telling anyone about it has sort of inspired me to really open up about it. I honestly don't know what my motives for writing this are. I think it has something to do with the fact that I want people to have a better idea of exactly what's wrong with me. I don't want to be completely defined by my illness but I also want people to really be aware of the fact that there's damned good reasons why I am on Disability and not being a normal, productive, independent, responsible adult. Most people don't understand at all how profoundly disturbed I am because I'm better than most at hiding it. No longer. This is to tear down the misconceptions that I'm just a regular guy who gets sad and anxious sometimes but is mostly okay other than that. It's time to be understood and see who accepts the real me and who doesn't want to have anything to do with me any longer.

I see a psychiatrist I believe on the 19th. I am not 100% positive I will make it that long. I may have to check myself into a hospital at some point before that. I don't feel that I badly need to right now. However, that could change at any time. I may need to change my meds in the near future. I don't think my old meds are doing the trick as well as they used to. Kind of sad, I had developed a great deal of loyalty to Risperdal. Maybe it's odd to have customer loyalty to a drug, but it probably saved my life. I need to talk to someone about something new because I think my body has adjusted too much to the meds I'm on now and they are no longer at optimal effectiveness. I have noticed some of my psychotic symptoms coming back. That is what this post is about.

I have always been paranoid. I have been afraid of people for as long as I can remember. I have thought that when someone laughs they are laughing at me for just about the same amount of time. I can be very nosy because I am always worried that people are trying to bring me down behind my back. My wife (yay that she's now my wife since my birthday!) has remarked on how nosy I am. I have a compulsion to look at her computer screen when she's using her computer. I am normally not paranoid about her but that is essentially the reason I do that. I also listen carefully whenever I hear conversations near me because I'm positive they are about me. At some point, years ago, these paranoid inclinations blossomed into full-blown psychotic delusions.

My mother used to get angry at God and scream at him to strike her dead whenever anything went wrong. I believe I inherited my inclination to paranoia from her but somehow learned from her the specifics. I don't even really believe in God, at least not in a monotheistic sense of one absolute all-powerful king of humanity. But I blame God for my misfortunes because the madness in my mind believes that only an omnipotent deity is capable of manufacturing the conspiracy that is operating against me. I also don't demand that God strike me dead when things go awry. Instead, I scream at him to come down from on high and, essentially, do battle with me so that either I can kill him or he can kill me and thus end the torment. Yes, when the insanity bursts through the dams of my mental defenses, I honestly believe I'd have a chance to kill the almighty Creator in one on one combat. I told you you wouldn't think I was normal after this. It gets worse.

So, I think God has it in for me. He has a plan too. He wants to drive me to suicide. I am convinced of this. I can't really explain why but I know it in my soul. God created me solely to (perhaps) get some kind of sick pleasure out of crushing me beneath his heel. Delightful. I am locked in a mortal struggle with the Divine. The Divine I only believe in when I am out of my gourd and convinced I am being persecuted unto death. So, how does God go about his evil plot? That's where it gets really nuts. See, God knows how much I want the stuff I order online. I buy myself stuff compulsively to make myself feel better when I am unhappy. That's a whole other post by itself. It's part of my whole sickness. But I digress. So, he knows I feel like I need those items I buy for myself to save my sanity. We've already established that he seeks to destroy my sanity. Thus, it makes perfect sense that he'd try to keep those packages from me. He goes about this by collaborating with African-Americans in the USPS, UPS, FedEx, etc. to delay, damage or lose my shipments. Yes, blacks in the shipping industry take orders from God to not deliver me my stuff in a timely fashion in order to deny me the satisfaction I derive from it and to ultimately drive me to kill myself.

I told you I was embarrassed and not proud. I don't even know where to begin with this. I mean, first there's the plain insanity of this thought. I could also point out the racism involved, even though I fight against being that kind of person with all my might when I'm not in the grip of psychosis. It doesn't make me feel any better about myself when I remind myself that I did, after all, vote for a black man in the last Presidential election. That isn't enough proof that I'm not a racist to my disgusted self. I don't know why my brain picked blacks specifically to be afraid of in this instance. No clue. Anyway, it's a mad, racist, sick thought. And I can't get it out of my head lately. And this delusion goes back years. Medication made it go away for a long time but I'm slipping back into it lately. Maybe, as I said, it's my body adjusting to my drugs. Perhaps it's the fact that I've been under a lot of stress lately. Stress amplifies mental illness out of control. Whatever is the cause, I think it's quite understandable why I have been considering checking myself into the hospital. I get anxiety attacks when I check the mail in case something I'm expecting hasn't arrived yet. Definitely not sane.

That's not everything. I wish it was. Sunday night, I was convinced I wasn't real. I didn't think anything was real. That's a common symptom of psychosis. I also have been terrified of all of my friends conspiring behind my back to break me and then abandon me in my time of need. I can't just trust my friends, I'm always so very suspicious. This is one reason why many schizotypals, schizoaffectives and schizophrenics don't like to make close relationships with others. They are too paranoid and afraid of what will happen. I decided some time ago to force myself to take the risk and it has been good for me but I can't honestly say there aren't times I regret it. If you are reading this, odds are, at some time in the not-too-distant past, I have been deathly afraid of you and what you will someday do to me. Sorry.

If you hate me or are afraid of Crazy Chris now, don't worry, I was prepared for that. You're just confirming my fears of people. If you pity me, don't. I fight this shit with all my might and don't want to be your favorite victim. If you support me, bless your heart. That's what I need. I fear someday taking my own life or ending up as a permanent resident of a hospital or possibly being a madman living on the streets ranting to himself. But I haven't given up. I will have to lose my marbles completely so that I can't even contemplate fighting before I give up. If you read all of this, thanks. It's a sign you care. Or else you're morbidly curious. I would be too. Madness isn't pretty, but it sure as hell is interesting.